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  • Books of 2021 📚

    Books of 2021 📚

    If you’ve followed my blog through 2021, you might have noticed that I tried to read more books. Back in March I was impressed with my ability to up my book completion to three books. By November, I’d read ten books and had a target of twelve.

    Well, the final two made their way onto my iPhone and into my ears. If you didn’t see the previous posts – the way I upped my reading count was to switch from printed copies of books to audiobooks. Close friends have assured me that listening still counts as reading and so I’ll use these words interchangeably throughout this post.

    For November, I read Jews Don’t Count by David Baddiel. It’s a short but interesting read which observes how antisemitism is considered in society and how it’s often denied the same severity of other -isms.

    Throughout December, I read Say Nothing by Patrick Radden Keefe. Where Jews Don’t Count plays out over less than 3 hours, Say Nothing is a hearty 15 hours of stories and historical notes about the Provisional Irish Republican Army and troubles in Northern Ireland.

    Not every book I read this year was good. Some were harder to get through than others. Certain books were a joy to read. I’ll try and pluck out a few below, but before i do that, here’s the complete rundown for 2021.

    coxy’s reads for 2021

    The list

    1. Joe Moran – If You Should Fail
    2. John Gray – Feline Philosophy
    3. Bill Gates – How to Avoid a Climate Disaster
    4. Alok Vaid-Menon – Beyond the Gender Binary
    5. Afua Hirsch – Brit(ish)
    6. Caroline Criado Perez – Invisible Women
    7. Grayson Perry – The Descent of Man
    8. Kate Murphy – You’re Not Listening
    9. Dolly Alderton – Ghosts
    10. Bob Mortimer – And Away…
    11. David Baddiel – Jews Don’t Count
    12. Patrick Radden Keefe – Say Nothing

    And now, for the books that – if they were physical – would stay on my shelf, and the books that would be cast out into the world on bookcrossing.com

    🏆 Most Fun Book to Read
    Dolly Alderton – Ghosts

    I guess this was one of the few books on the list that wasn’t about something factual and slightly depressing. It was fiction and a whimsical story and a little bit of a predictable ending. But whatever, it was enjoyable.

    🏆 Most Captivating Book to Read
    Patrick Radden Keefe – Say Nothing

    You’d think after near to fifteen hours of listening to one particular subject that maybe you want to listen to something else. But this hefty read kept me captivated from beginning to end.

    🏆 Most Interesting Book to Read
    Caroline Criado Perez – Invisible Women

    It was tough to chose the most ‘interesting’ book because Brit(ish) by Afua Hirsch was also up there. But, Invisible Women takes the title for the book that taught me a lot of stuff in an area I wasn’t fully clued up about.

    💩 Worst Book to Read
    John Gray – Feline Philosophy

    Cats! I think I was tricked into listening to a whole load of philosophy which was lightly sprinkled with vague connections to our feline friends. I really struggled to take in this book. It became a bit of a chore to listen to towards the end, but I made it and almost regretted doing so.


    Okay, that’s it for my year in books summary. If you want to know more about any book, click the links. If you want my opinion or to discuss any books, you probably know where to find me.

    For 2022, I’ll try to replicate my target of 12 books for 12 months. If you have any recommendations, leave them in the comments of this post.

    Expect a new book-related summary in January 2023.

  • 10 out of 12 📚

    10 out of 12 📚

    Back in March I eagerly wrote on this blog that I had read 3 books. The caveat here is that I was cheating my way to the end of each book by consuming it in audio format.

    Nevertheless, 3 books is more than I had finished in previous years combined. I was quite proud of myself and boldly set a challenge of bringing that total to 6 books come the year’s end.

    Going from 1 book per annum to 6 books felt like quite the jump. But, here we are at the start of November 2021 and I’ve tallied up 1 book per month, closing my 10th book recently, and adjusted my Apple Books reading goal to 12 books.

    Books Read This Year

    At this point, I’m fairly confident that I’ll successfully round the year off by hitting the 12 book goal. I have already started book number 11.

    It’s been enjoyable to listen to so many books. Maybe one day I’ll find the time to sit and read physical copies, most likely when I’m retired with afternoons to while away.

    In the meantime, the same target will be set for next year. Another 12 books – no matter whether they are audio, e-book, or printed format. Currently my “Want to read” collection stands at 45 books, so I have plenty to choose from.


    Books Read This Year (2021)

    1. Joe Moran – If You Should Fail
    2. John Gray – Feline Philosophy
    3. Bill Gates – How to Avoid a Climate Disaster
    4. Alok Vaid-Menon – Beyond the Gender Binary
    5. Afua Hirsch – Brit(ish)
    6. Caroline Criado Perez – Invisible Women
    7. Grayson Perry – The Descent of Man
    8. Kate Murphy – You’re Not Listening
    9. Dolly Alderton – Ghosts
    10. Bob Mortimer – And Away…
    11. November
    12. December
  • I’ve ‘read’ 3 books in 2021.

    I’ve ‘read’ 3 books in 2021.

    Despite my last post about readng – a social network for book lovers, I must hold my hands up and admit that I am actually terrible at reading books. Put a screen in front of me and I can read news and social media on the internet for hours. Wave an interesting-looking book in my face and I’ll pick up the book, start it, and then never finish it.

    My track record is so bad that in an average year I will start reading a handful of books, but am lucky if I finish a single one. In fact, during 2020, I finished just one book – The Last Romeo by Justin Myers. 2019? Zero. 2018? Again, just one – Strange Heart Beating by Eli Goldstone – and I only started reading that because Eli was an old classmate of mine. I’m glad I picked that one up — it turned out to be a really good book.

    Turning the page.

    I tried to find a solution to my book-reading problem and figured that since I can spend so long reading on a screen, I should get an Apple iPad and use Apple Books. It seemed like a great way to avoid buying physical books that I have to put in a physical book case, only for them to collect dust as they remain unread.

    I set a yearly goal of reading 3 books and downloaded three e-books; Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker, Leading by Alex Ferguson, and Tender is the Night by F. Scott Fitzgerald.

    At the time of writing this, Apple Books tells me I’m about 33% through each of them. With that sort of progress, maybe I should have spent all my time reading just one book, then at least I would have finished one. They’re neatly lined up to continue my inability to finish a book.

    Headphones on.

    In addition to the more standard e-book, I also purchased an audiobook — If You Should Fail by Joe Moran. I figured that, for a while, I can replace the time I spend listening to podcasts with tuning my ears into a longer-form of recording instead.

    This went really well. Within a few days, I had finished my first audiobook and soon picked up a second; Feline Philosophy by John Gray. I started listening more; as I did chores around the house, or as I walked to and fro the supermarket. It didn’t take long before finished my second, then third; How To Avoid A Climate Disaster by Bill Gates.

    And with that, I reached my yearly goal on Apple Books of reading three books. Well, listening to three books. I almost feel like it’s cheating.

    My goal is to still finish the three initial books that I bought. And at this rate, considering we have just entered March, I could make it through many more audiobooks this year. I’ve upped my goal to six books and we’ll see how it goes.

    What are you reading at the moment?

    A screenshot of Apple Books' reading goal showing 3 completed slots and 3 empty slots.